Dealing with Negativity

I am a mirror 🪞

How you see me is how you see yourself.

Understand that one can only meet someone as far as they have met themselves.

The thing(s) that I do which trigger(s) someone, is only a reflection of that person's unique experience on this earth & how they have been moulded by their company and environment.

Perhaps my confidence triggers insecure people.

Perhaps my courage triggers fearful people.

Perhaps my freedom triggers people who are restricted.

Perhaps my education triggers people who didn't get very far in school.

Perhaps my breaking the rules of society triggers people who obeyed every rule and didn't live for themselves and are still unhappy or don't even know themselves because they never bothered to self explore.

I am only a mirror 🪞

One of the four agreements is not to take things personally.

I don't take hate & negativity personally.

Those who don't have these triggers don't have these hindrances and are already on an enlightened path. I'll never get hate from someone who is doing better than me. To a billionaire I'm just a baby millionaire. To a fitness guru I'm just someone who started the gym 90 days ago. To a person who has millions of followers, I'm a micro influencer

The people doing BETTER than me are rooting for me and respect the journey. Someone can only pull you down if they are already beneath you.

Those above you only want to pull you up. Those on the same level, 50/50.

Only time will tell if they grow with you or grow apart. It's just life ❤️

The next time you find yourself judging someone, pay attention to your own thoughts. They are the biggest hints of our greatest desires- our judgements of others.

Love, Vixen.